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Friday 24 January 2014

Thank You Mummy

Having lots of conflicts with her for this period of time when I am busy and stressful preparing for my wedding...

I thank her for betraying my trust that she will prepare the food for the guest on my 过大礼 day... Which she promise d and did not do it... Cos we did not ans to her question....

She also threaten that she will be out of the house with her car and ask us to settle it ourself .. knowing that we need the car to distribute the invitation all over the world...

Grateful that she only did not prepare for the food.... and caused me lots of stress and unhappiness. ..

安床.... out of no where... the night b4 she claims she is not important and will not be at home... as she 1 2 send the car to repair....

Luckily the next day she manage to be back home on time...

Night before going to ROM @ Fort Canning .... She asked me is the MUA staying me throughout the banquet... I say... kind of... knowing that she is super sensitive. ... I process in my brain and adjust my tone and told her nicely... the MUA will not touch up her make up for her... She accused me saying that she show concern and  I shoot her back with nasty words like dun hope for MUA will touch up her make up...

We argued! And she purposely SIGN... loudly and say she is not happy at all with this wedding... Asking Mr Lee is he happy? Happy hor? But I (she) not happy at all!

Claiming that she is like a maid... Work a lot... Clean up the whole house... Seriously which mum dun do housework? Which mum dun do such preparation for their daughter wedding....???

She said she wanted to give me more for my wedding... But cos of my attitude. .. She is not giving...

I cannot believe she say this to me... She said she got a chain for me.. To wear for my wedding ... Must return to her after the wedding...

I seriously could not understand this... is that chain for a show? Or is it sincerely given to me?

Throughout the preparation... I did not ask for much help or suggestion from her...

To get a good date for wedding... I have a master intro by my cousin... @$130 for 3 dates .... actual day... an chuang... guo da li...

The master she find...  $200  plus for 1 date...

Selecting the hotel for banquet...

Invited her along to view the hotel... she will suddenly say on on on ... this hotel... asked her why on this hotel .. she cannot ans. ..

Out of no where... she sudden not happy and say she dun 1 2 invite any guest to the wedding as she might not be there...

Wow wow wow...

All kind of suggestion for food tasting...
Change menu... change items in the dish.. adding additional items...

Non stop nagging to achieve what she wants...! I really had enough ...!

2 more days to my wedding...

Many ask... am I excited? My ans is NO!

Till just now... as she have 1 empty slot in her friend guest list.. I asked.. I will slot 1 person in... she say cant as she 1 2 get 1 person who cant confirm...

She insist to reserve the seat for that person...

Wanted us to slot it to other table which already have 10 pax...

Seriosuly... is paying double... paying for a empty seat of 1 table and pay at another table to get 1 more seat...

So so so so so much more... which could not pen it down...


Friday 17 January 2014

Feelings~

This 1 whole yr i didnt blog much or didnt blog at all cos im busy with my wedding preparation ~

This Happy event has lots of unhappiness ... due to family .... i really have a hard time struggling ~ ~

IS freaking tiring ~

Advice to people who dun like trouble ~ dun organise anny banquet... just do it as simple as possible ~

Update more next time ~